Deepak Shukla: How many girls did you date in total? Have you ever felt regarding a girl that she is the one for you and you screw up?

Deepak Shukla: How many girls did you date in total? Have you ever felt regarding a girl that she is the one for you and you screw up?

If dating means develop something meaningful then:

  1. British-Nigerian
  2. French-Ghanaian
  3. Spanish
  4. Italian
  5. Dutch (x2)
  6. British-Jamaican
  7. British-Carribean
  8. British-English
  9. British-Ghanaian
  10. Polish

That’s all I can remember for meaningful. Some of these were just a few dates. But the chemistry, romance and opportunity to develop something greater was there with ALL OF THEM.

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Have I felt a girl is the one?

Sure there are two on that list; but one really that even today I’m like ‘damn I screwed up’.

I try not to think about it. It doesn’t lead me anywhere good. I just focus on moving forward.

And it’s also why I advise. Read books on romance. As a British-Indian man with parents that had an arranged marriage I had quite a distorted view (through no fault of my parents - it’s just how it was) of what a loving relationship was.

It took me about 5 years of dating to start figuring it out. You don’t know what you don’t know!

Do better than me.

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